So many people just like myself had in one time or the other been caught in the web of wanting to gain the approval of almost everyone around them. The pursuit of this is sincerely unrealistic as we can only be sure of our reaction to others but hardly can tell how others react to us. Now that should be simply seen and accepted as nature is.
The world is comprised of billions and billions of humans; different language, different beliefs, different geography, different sense of judgment, and utterly different differences. However, as diverse as we all are, there is a hundred and one possibility to Love everyone - and Love here isn't that which is borne by the reason of attraction, but we refer to that which is pure and divine.
In a situation where there are many square pegs, many square holes, many round pegs, and many round holes, there will be much need for compatibility checks if perfect fitting is to be achieved. If you agree with me to this extent, why then do you sometimes frown when everyone doesn't seem to get along with you? Maybe they are just some round pegs wanting to fit into your square hole. The disastrous thing about such relationship is that you keep getting negatively affected if you choose to drag along with it.
In the same way, you do not just afford everyone the opportunity to come within your close circle. The Close Circle is meant to be closed and that's why it is called so. This is so important because the outcome of what your life becomes is directly a result of those you have consciously or unconsciously allowed into your inner circle. Emotions are too weak to stand our relationships on.
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