There is no being on planet earth that can achieve or attain any substantial height without an alliance or some sorts of partnership with a second party. The quicker we settle to digest this truth, the faster we climb to the top of life's ladder and the more we experience perfect peace.
As humans, we have been fashioned in a way that our ability to get satisfaction is not solely dependent on us, but has been placed in someone else. That is, the key to our satisfaction has been given to someone else. Satisfaction here is really a broad term but for the present context, it is a state of internal fulfilment. I remembered how my Economist teacher made us memorise the definition of utility as the amount of satisfaction derived from a particular commodity. That exactly fits in.
Now, let us have it in mind that the person with whom our satisfaction, success, goodness and bliss lies has EMOTIONS. Why do we need to know this? Our failure to acknowlege this will place us on a wrong pedestal to start with. Please follow me... For you to strike a good relationship deal with anyone, the kind of emotion you approach such persons with must agree with his or her current emotion as at that time. If this criteria is nolified, there is going to be a imabalance somewhere in the relationship. Wow! This is getting interesting. A square peg will not fit into a round hole and so agreement of emotion is key.
Families, societies and the world at large will immensely improve only if the inhabitants keenly understand the place of emotional agreement in relationships. Let's take a cue from the way God fashioned our sexual organs. The male gender is structurally different from the female. While men are structures to 'give', women are structured to 'receive'. So, it is therefore imperative and normal for the man to search for a woman in other to hit satisfaction, same applies to the woman. Please mind my use of the word "Normal". The abnormality is soon found in men or women trying to give to themselves what the other party is meant to give. Now this same anology is relevant beyond the discourse of sex. It is applicable in all spheres of human relationship.
In some couple of our previous posts, we have been learning from our guest who shared her experiences on being sexually molested while growing as a child. Perhaps you've not read previous posts please try do so as we will be linking some thoughts from the previous posts.
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