IN THE THICKETS OF SEX (Part 1)

  Hello friends! Wow, I'm just so glad you're here again. Guess what, today I'll be sharing with us a sexual discourse using the story of a leading voice in the business of relationship and marital coaching, Mrs Nike Adedokun.   More preeminent than it has been, the subject of sexual pervasion has been on the increase. You wouldn't believe if that lady you've always admired had gone through terrible sexual assaults neither would you imagine that the seemingly cool guy who offers you his "platonic" kind gestures abuses his neighbour's child who is just 4years old.

Traditionally, rape is the forceful imposition of some sexual activities upon another person or group of persons definitely without their consent. Now,  let us try broaden our scope. A rape would not be considered a rape if there were to be a mutual consent and an unimposing attitude. It's good then we establish that the activity of rape goes beyond the forceful manipulation into sexual activities whether or not with the sexual organs. Just last week on PLR(Purpose Love and Relationship), Mrs Adedokun raised a question on what the greatest sexual organ is. Many would have thought if to be the Penis or Virgina as it were, but it was later agreed to be the MIND. How can the mind be a sexual organ, after all it shouldn't be more than a reasoning faculty?
Let us take some cues from Mrs Adedokun who was sexually abused by her teacher at the age of 6. She says;

"At the age of 6, my lesson teacher began to sexually molest me.I once visited a family who managed a room apartment where we all slept(I, the children and their parents). With this, I often wake up to witness their parents have sex. That scenario stuck in my mind coupled with the fact that I was already being molested by my teacher. Sooner enough, other neighbors, class mates and the boys in the street saw some selfish reasons to molest me the more. I was pretty as a young girl but already battered inside of me...

Hmmm...please permit that I stop here for today. We will go further in the next post.
Perhaps, you can already relate with this scenario, we will really love that you share your comments or even ask questions.
Thanks for your time!






POETIC VOICES


Elegy of An Ex-Virgin

Whose fault is it? 
That my hormones are extra active
So much as to cause a sporadic protrusion of my breasts?
That I inherited elephant-like buttocks from my momma 
So much that men wouldn't let me rest - young and old alike?

...to be continued. 

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